My twin

He had dreams. He wanted to help. He was my parents son. He held them in such high regard. My mom who went back to school to be a social worker in her 40’s. My dad who graduated high school and went back to school in his 40’s. They both had designs to bring peopleContinue reading “My twin”

How to Remain Positive

The state of affairs are grim at best right now in America. “The land of the free” is most definitely not. We have this new faction called ICE, whose main job is to obtain anyone who seems like they’re “not supposed to be here”. By that I mean, anyone who isn’t white, speaks with anContinue reading “How to Remain Positive”

I’m in my crone era “don’t give a shit?”

I guess that means I’m a woman 50 or over. I’m experienced, been through some shit. Made it through but still experiencing shit. Work interpersonal shit. Having to react to other people’s interpersonal shit. Other people’s interpersonal shit being a thing. My own interpersonal shit there too. Juggling all that interpersonal shit whilst trying toContinue reading “I’m in my crone era “don’t give a shit?””

Full Menopause

When we’re young girl’s going through puberty we learn to stay silent. I got my first period on a camp sleepover. I was 10 years old. I woke up and thought I was dying. I saw blood. Later, my mom told me what that was. I was “a woman”. It sounded like a threat. AllContinue reading “Full Menopause”

The support of women

I recently went on a company team building ice skating outing at the iconic Bryant Park in New York City. It was a beautiful thought and was much needed since we’re all gearing up for our busy season. I talked a good game to my co workers. I used to skate every weekend! I couldContinue reading “The support of women”

Magical Norway from an American point of view

I visited Scandinavia a couple years ago. Couldn’t tell you how many exactly, there were a couple years that disappeared in the pandemic. I was shocked at their philosophy when it comes to government and what the government does for the people. They have a philosophy. From the cradle to the grave. It means, youContinue reading “Magical Norway from an American point of view”

The Art of Juicing

Nowadays, you have to go out of your way to find joy.  It’s still there but hidden under layers and layers of fear, anxiety and a general feeling of impending doom.  This has become our default setting, our lock screen.  Still, it’s so important to do everything you can to find moments throughout the dayContinue reading “The Art of Juicing”