Hot Flash

As a woman I’ve often heard about hot flashes. These are things that happen to older women and they’re often met with an eye roll. Like they’re not really happening and should just be shrugged off. I admit, as a young woman, whenever an older woman complained about a hot flash, I thought she wasContinue reading “Hot Flash”

Give yourself a gift and recognize a gift

Everyday I judge myself for the things I haven’t done. I don’t have kids. I don’t own a business. I haven’t changed the world as a whole. What if, helping an older lady up the stairs on the subway platform was enough. What if deciding to be positive today was enough. What if saying, excuseContinue reading “Give yourself a gift and recognize a gift”

Another man’s trash: Why You should mindful of want you say

We don’t all understand what the other has been through. What they’ve experienced throughout their lives. What upsets one may not upset the other. What is wonderful to one is triggering to another. Let’s talk about the word “triggering.“ Some may think it means to gently annoy. Or to make someone roll their eyes orContinue reading “Another man’s trash: Why You should mindful of want you say”

Hello menopause, we’ve been waiting for you. Here’s where my mind goes in this process.

Getting older is hard. Especially for a woman. Appearance wise I mean. As women,our worth is often tied to how desirable we are to men. Perky breasts, bright eyes, supple skin. All of that is maintained by hormones. Hormones that rely on you bleeding every month. Hormones that rely on you being of child bearingContinue reading “Hello menopause, we’ve been waiting for you. Here’s where my mind goes in this process.”

The Phoenix from the flames

We’ve all been through hell. We’ve all thought about what we want. What we need. What we’re willing to accept for a paycheck. We’ve been there. We’ve been absolute in our findings. We’ve re entered society. We’ve found our approach different. We’ve tried to adhere to our knew findings. It’s worked to a point. WorkContinue reading “The Phoenix from the flames”

Cat Zoom Call: Overlooked for a job

Sammy Sammy is upset but playing it cool, and calling Belle. Belle Hey Sammy. I got your text. What’s the 911? I’ve thrown myself into this pillow. I’m so upset!! Belle I’m listening… Sammy I threw myself on a different pillow because I was just grossly overlooked! Belle Go on. Sammy Well, my male human,Continue reading “Cat Zoom Call: Overlooked for a job”

NYC, Determined to make your out of borough commute a nightmare Pt. 2

25 minutes later, we got in our Uber and inched downtown on 5th Avenue towards Union square. We caught every light, and almost collided with a speeding car when the driver ran a red light. It would’ve gone right through us if our driver didn’t have that automatic break feature. We cared for about twoContinue reading “NYC, Determined to make your out of borough commute a nightmare Pt. 2”

NYC, determined to make your outer borough commute home a nightmare

New York City has seen a few hurricanes and tropical storms. Nothing like the southern coastal states but maybe that’s the problem. We’re not always prepared. This past Saturday, we were visited by Tropical Storm Henry. That horrible bitch. It came quickly and wreaked local temporary havoc. When you happen to be on an outContinue reading “NYC, determined to make your outer borough commute home a nightmare”

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